Perfume Etiquette in Arab Culture: A Balance of Tradition and Consideration

Fragrance is an integral part of Arab culture, deeply rooted in history, hospitality, and personal grooming. The use of oud, frankincense, musk, and floral essences is not just a personal preference—it’s a statement of elegance, tradition, and even spirituality. Bakhoor (incense) is often burned in homes, offices, and even places of worship, creating an atmosphere of warmth and refinement. Perfume is also used to honor guests, with many offering a spritz of oud or scented oil as a gesture of hospitality.

However, while perfume is celebrated in many social settings, its application should always be mindful of the environment and the people around you. With more individuals developing sensitivities to strong scents—due to allergies, migraines, or personal preference—being considerate of when and where to wear perfume is essential.

Just as fragrance can enhance an experience, it can also disrupt it when used excessively or in the wrong setting. In professional and social spaces, the key is to wear just enough to make a subtle statement—without overwhelming those around you.

When to Be Cautious with Perfume

1. Public Transportation – Confined Spaces, No Escape

Whether in a crowded metro in Dubai, a packed taxi in Riyadh, or even an elevator in a corporate office, strong perfume can quickly become overwhelming. In these confined spaces, fellow passengers have no escape from your scent—which might not be pleasant for everyone.

💡 Etiquette Tip: If you’re using public transport, consider applying a lighter touch of perfume or opting for a scented body lotion instead.

2. The Gym – Sweat and Fragrance Don’t Mix

A good oud-based cologne or floral perfume might be great for an evening out, but at the gym, it can clash with sweat and body heat, creating an overpowering or even unpleasant mix. Some people prefer a fragrance-free workout environment, as strong scents can become irritating when combined with physical exertion.

💡 Etiquette Tip: Stick to fresh, clean scents like citrus or light florals—or skip perfume altogether in workout spaces.

3. Funerals and Mourning Gatherings – A Time for Simplicity

In Arab culture, funerals and mourning gatherings are solemn and spiritual occasions. The focus is on prayer, remembrance, and supporting the family of the deceased. Wearing a strong perfume can distract from the purpose of the gathering and may come across as inappropriate or self-indulgent.

💡 Etiquette Tip: If you choose to wear a scent, opt for a light, natural fragrance or a barely-there application.

4. Medical Settings (Hospitals, Clinics, Surgery) – Health Comes First

Hospitals and clinics often have strict scent-free policies because patients, doctors, and nurses may have respiratory conditions or allergies triggered by perfume. Additionally, if you’re undergoing surgery, fragrance particles can interfere with medical procedures and post-surgical recovery.

💡 Etiquette Tip: Avoid wearing any strong perfume or bakhoor when visiting a hospital or medical facility. Fresh, clean-smelling clothing is more than enough.

5. Sushi Restaurants in Japan – A Cultural No-No

Just as perfume is deeply valued in Arab culture, other cultures have their own etiquette around fragrance. In Japan, for example, wearing strong perfume to a sushi restaurant is considered a major faux pas.

Why? Because perfume can interfere with the delicate flavors of sushi. Japanese cuisine, especially sushi, is designed to be an experience of subtle tastes and aromas—and a strong perfume can overpower the scent and flavor of fresh fish, rice, and wasabi, ruining the meal for you and others. Some high-end sushi restaurants in Japan may even refuse entry to guests wearing overpowering scents.

💡 Etiquette Tip: If dining at a sushi restaurant—or any fine dining establishment—avoid wearing strong fragrances to respect the sensory experience of the meal.

How to Wear Fragrance with Finesse

If you love wearing perfume but want to be mindful of those around you, here are some ways to strike a balance:

Final Thoughts: A Lasting Impression Without Overpowering the Room

Perfume is a beautiful form of self-expression, and in Arab culture, it is woven into tradition, identity, and hospitality. However, true refinement comes from knowing when to enhance an experience and when to hold back.

A well-chosen fragrance should be like a signature, not a statement—memorable yet subtle, leaving a trace of elegance without dominating the space. The best scent is one that enhances your presence without intruding on others’ comfort.

By being mindful of where and how we wear perfume, we ensure that this cherished tradition remains both a pleasure and a sign of good etiquette.